Mental Health Support
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- Notice emotional loadReflect on anxiety, low mood, feeling overwhelmed, or the strain of adjusting.Why it matters: Naming it is what makes it something you can get help with rather than something you carry.
- Decide what type of support feels acceptableThis might be counselling, psychology, peer support, or something else.Why it matters: Support only helps if it is a form you will actually use.
- Start with one conversationA first appointment can clarify what ongoing support might look like.Why it matters: One conversation is a much smaller decision than committing to ongoing support.
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Living with ALS/MND affects far more than the body. The same is true for caring for someone with it. A wide range of emotions is a normal, human response to a very hard situation, and struggling emotionally is not a weakness or a failure to "stay positive".
Emotions people commonly experience:
- Grief and loss for abilities, plans, roles, and the future you expected. Grief in this situation is natural and can come in waves.
- Anxiety and fear about the future, the unknown, and day-to-day worries.
- Low mood, sadness, or depression. This can range from difficult days to a more persistent heaviness that may need support.
- Anger, frustration, or guilt at the situation, at the body, or about relying on others.
- Moments of acceptance, meaning, and even joy too. Many people find life still holds good things alongside the hard ones.
Feelings often shift over time and around particular moments (diagnosis, changes in the condition, new equipment). There is no "right" way to feel, and emotions can be mixed and contradictory.
Some changes can be part of the condition itself. A few things are worth knowing and raising with your team rather than struggling with silently:
- Involuntary laughing or crying (emotional lability, sometimes called pseudobulbar affect) is strong outward emotion that does not match how you feel inside. It can be part of MND and can be helped (see the symptom management card).
- Changes in thinking, memory, or behaviour. Research suggests up to half of people with ALS/MND have some change in thinking or behaviour. For most people these changes are subtle and have little or no effect on daily life, and a smaller number have more noticeable changes. Changes like these become more common in the later stages. If you or your family notice something, mention it to your team, who can advise and support.
The key message: emotional support is a normal, valid part of ALS/MND care. That is true for you and for your caregivers and family. You do not have to cope alone or "be strong" on your own. The next questions cover the professional support available, when to reach out, and how to access it.
Explained: what this word meansEvidence for this answer
The sources the Compass team used to write this answer. Highlighted phrases in the answer above correspond to the statements below.
Statement 1 of 3. A wide range of emotional responses to an ALS/MND diagnosis is expected and normal, not a sign of coping badly.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Treats strong and mixed emotions as expected after an MND diagnosis, and lists shock, denial, frustration, anger, fear, guilt, sadness and grief among the natural responses.
“Your experience is individual, but natural responses to a difficult diagnosis are to be expected and may include the following.”
Section 1: What can I expect?, page 4Link checked August 2026
Statement 2 of 3. Involuntary laughing or crying can be part of MND itself, and it can be treated.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Says emotional lability affects some people with MND, explains it as an abnormal motor response rather than an emotional one, and says medication may help if it limits what you do.
“Emotional lability (known as pseudobulbar affect) affects some people with MND.”
Section 3: How do I manage emotional lability?, page 26Link checked August 2026
Supports this. ALS Mental Health — Your ALS Guide · Practical guide
Describes pseudobulbar affect in people with ALS as sudden, unpredictable episodes of laughing or crying that are difficult to stop, and says medication can manage it.
“There are medications available that can be effective in managing the symptoms of PBA.”
Understanding Pseudobulbar AffectLink checked August 2026
Statement 3 of 3. Up to half of people with ALS/MND have some change in thinking or behaviour, and for most these changes are subtle and have little or no effect on daily life.
Supports this. ALS Mental Health — Your ALS Guide · Practical guide
Puts a figure on it: cognitive change can occur in up to half of people with ALS, and for most that means gradual, subtle changes rather than the more noticeable picture of frontotemporal dementia.
“Recent research indicates that this can occur in up to 50% of those living with the disease.”
Monitoring Cognitive and Behavioral ChangesLink checked August 2026
Qualifies this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Gives the same figure of up to half, and adds that these changes usually have little or no effect on daily life. It also qualifies the figure by stage: it rises to 8 out of 10 people in the late stages of MND.
“Up to half of people with MND have changes to thinking and behaviour.”
Section 1: What can I expect?, page 10Link checked August 2026
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There is a range of professional support for emotional wellbeing and mental health, and the right kind depends on what you need. Roles and titles vary by country, but the broad options are:
- Counselling and talking therapies. A trained counsellor or therapist gives you a safe, confidential space to talk through feelings, fears, grief, and coping. Some therapies are more structured (for example, approaches that help with anxiety or low mood); a professional can suggest what suits you.
- Psychologists for assessment and therapy for low mood, anxiety, adjustment, and coping, often with talking-based approaches.
- Psychiatrists / doctors are medically trained, and able to assess and treat conditions like depression or anxiety, including with medication where appropriate. Decisions about any medication are individual and made with your doctor.
- Social workers and specialist nurses offer emotional support alongside practical help, and a route to other services.
- Palliative care teams are skilled in emotional as well as physical support, at any stage (see the palliative care card).
- Spiritual or pastoral care for those who find meaning, comfort, or guidance in faith or spiritual support.
A few important points:
- Support is for caregivers and family too. The people around you carry a lot, and there is professional support specifically for them. They should not overlook their own wellbeing.
- Look for ALS/MND understanding where you can. It is reasonable to ask for a professional with experience of ALS/MND, disability, or another serious illness, and your team or association can often point you to one. Counselling can also help without that specific experience, so do not let it hold you back from getting support.
- It can be combined. Many people use more than one kind of support. For example, counselling plus peer support (see the peer support card), or talking therapy alongside medical input.
There is no single right choice. It is about finding what helps you. The next question looks at when to reach out, including if you are really struggling.
Explained: what this word meansEvidence for this answer
The sources the Compass team used to write this answer. Highlighted phrases in the answer above correspond to the statements below.
Statement 1 of 3. Talking with a trained counsellor or therapist helps people work through feelings, fears, grief and coping.
Supports this. ALS Mental Health — Your ALS Guide · Practical guide
Says a skilled counsellor or therapist can help someone struggling with overwhelming emotions, anxiety or depression build insights, coping skills and techniques for current and future challenges.
“Asking for help is not a weakness, and working with a trained mental health professional can be the key to finding peace of mind and a renewed sense of control over the areas of your life that you can control.”
Being Open to CounselingLink checked August 2026
Qualifies this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Agrees that talking therapies help people cope, and is explicit about the limit: they do not make the underlying problems go away.
“Talking therapies cannot make problems go away, but can help you cope with them.”
Section 2: How do I manage challenging emotions?, page 23Link checked August 2026
Statement 2 of 3. Palliative care teams provide emotional as well as physical support, and can be involved at any stage rather than only near the end of life.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Lists the specialist palliative care or hospice team among the professionals who help with emotions, and says to try to access this kind of care from the point of diagnosis.
“Specialist palliative care or hospice team: for practical and emotional support to achieve the best possible quality of life with a life-shortening illness.”
Section 5: Who can help?, page 34Link checked August 2026
Qualifies this. NICE MND guideline — NICE · Clinical guideline
Agrees that psychological distress is a reason to involve specialist palliative care, but frames referral around significant or complex needs rather than as open to everyone at every stage.
“Consider referral to a specialist palliative care team for people with current or anticipated significant or complex needs, for example, psychological or social distress, troublesome or rapidly progressing symptoms and complex future care planning needs.”
1.5.11Link checked August 2026
Statement 3 of 3. There is professional emotional and psychological support aimed at carers and family members in their own right.
Supports this. NICE MND guideline — NICE · Clinical guideline
Tells MND teams to offer family members and carers information about emotional and psychological support in their own right, including counselling and psychology services.
“Offer family members and/or carers (as appropriate) information about respite care and sources of emotional and psychological support, including support groups, online forums and counselling or psychology services.”
1.6.4Link checked August 2026
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Has a whole section for people in a caring role. It points carers to their own needs assessment and a possible referral to counselling, and says palliative care and hospice teams often offer similar support to carers and close family.
“You may also need a referral to counselling.”
Section 4: How can I get help if I support someone with MND?, page 30Link checked August 2026
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You do not have to wait until things feel unbearable to seek support. Reaching out early is a strength, not a last resort, and you do not need a "good enough" reason. If support would help, that is reason enough.
Signs it may be worth reaching out:
- Feelings of sadness, anxiety, or hopelessness that persist, or feel hard to shift.
- Losing interest in things you usually care about, or withdrawing from people.
- Trouble sleeping, eating, or concentrating. These can come from how you feel, but in ALS/MND they can also have physical causes, including changes in breathing. Ask your GP or care team for guidance, particularly if symptoms are new or getting worse, or if sleep is unrefreshing or you wake with a headache. That way your breathing can be checked as well as your mood.
- Feeling overwhelmed, unable to cope, or that emotions are taking over.
- Anxiety or worry that interferes with daily life.
- Simply wanting a space to talk. That alone is a good enough reason.
This applies to caregivers and family as much as to the person with ALS/MND. Carer stress and low mood are common and deserve support too.
Reaching out is normal. Emotional support is a normal part of ALS/MND care for you and for your family, and using it does not mean you are failing to cope. It means you are looking after yourself, just as you would for a physical symptom.
If you are in crisis or feeling unsafe
If you are having thoughts of harming yourself, feel you cannot keep yourself safe, or are in crisis, please reach out for help right now. You deserve support and you are not alone:
- Contact your local emergency services if you or someone else is in immediate danger.
- Contact a crisis or mental health helpline in your country. Many offer free, confidential support any time of day or night.
- Tell someone now. This could be a person you trust, your doctor, or your ALS/MND team.
These feelings can ease with the right support, and help is available.
If you are not in crisis but think support would help, the next question covers how to access it.
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The sources the Compass team used to write this answer. Highlighted phrases in the answer above correspond to the statements below.
Statement 1 of 4. Sadness, anxiety or hopelessness that persists or is hard to shift is a recognised sign that professional support may help.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Describes depression in MND in almost the same words, as feeling persistently sad, anxious or worthless or losing interest in things you once loved, and treats it as a reason to seek professional help.
“Depression: you may feel persistently sad, anxious or worthless, or have lost interest in things you once loved.”
Section 1: What can I expect?, page 6Link checked August 2026
Supports this. ALS Mental Health — Your ALS Guide · Practical guide
Lists persistent sadness, loss of interest, pulling away from others, disturbed sleep, difficulty concentrating and feelings of hopelessness as symptoms of clinical depression, and says to raise concerns rather than wait.
“Most importantly, if you or your loved ones are concerned that you might be depressed, contact your ALS neurologist to share your concerns and create a plan to help you feel better.”
Identifying and Treating DepressionLink checked August 2026
Statement 2 of 4. Trouble sleeping, eating or concentrating can come from ALS/MND symptoms as well as from mood, including changes in breathing, and should be raised with the GP or care team.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Makes the same link from the other direction. It leads its list with shortness of breath, extreme tiredness or problems with sleeping, and goes on to pain, stiffness or cramp, speech, and swallowing problems or loss of appetite, as MND symptoms that affect mood. It tells the reader to ask the GP or health and social care team for guidance if they have them.
“MND symptoms can affect mood. Ask your GP or health and social care team for guidance if you experience:”
Section 1: What can I expect?, page 4Link checked August 2026
Supports this. NICE MND guideline — NICE · Clinical guideline
Table 1, the list NG42 tells teams to monitor for potential respiratory impairment, includes disturbed sleep, non-refreshing sleep, daytime sleepiness, poor concentration and/or memory, morning headaches, fatigue and poor appetite alongside breathlessness. That is why this symptom cluster warrants a breathing check and not only a mood one.
“Monitor the symptoms and signs listed in table 1 to detect potential respiratory impairment.”
1.15.7Link checked August 2026
Statement 3 of 4. Stress and low mood are common among people caring for someone with ALS/MND, and carers need support in their own right.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Says carers are likely to face challenging emotions including sadness, anticipated grief, loss and anger, calls guilt a common one, and tells carers to get their own needs assessed and to consider counselling.
“As the care demands increase with MND, physical and emotional stress can impact heavily on carers.”
Section 4: How can I get help if I support someone with MND?, page 29Link checked August 2026
Statement 4 of 4. Thoughts of self-harm and other crisis feelings can ease with the right practical, medical and emotional support.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Says suicidal thoughts can happen alongside depression, fear, or worry about being a burden on others, that support can ease them, and lists a GP, a specialist palliative care professional, someone you trust and 24-hour helplines as people to talk to.
“Practical, medical and emotional support can help bring ease of mind.”
Section 1: What can I expect?, page 6Link checked August 2026
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There are several ways to reach mental health support, and you do not have to find it alone. The people already involved in your care can help connect you.
Ways in:
- Your ALS/MND team or clinic. Many include or can refer you to psychological support, and they are used to these conversations. Telling them you are struggling is a good first step.
- Your doctor / GP can assess how you are feeling, offer support or treatment, and refer you to counselling or specialist services.
- Your MND/ALS association often provides or knows local emotional support, counselling, and services experienced with the condition, for you and your family.
- Palliative care or a social worker. Both can provide emotional support and connect you with more.
- Mental health services directly. Depending on where you live, you may be able to contact counselling or mental health services yourself; your association can advise on local options.
Tips for getting started:
- You only need to take the first step. Say to someone in your care team, your doctor, or your association, "I'm finding this hard and would like some emotional support." They will help you find the right help.
- Ask about options for your situation. This includes support that can come to you, or by phone or video, if getting out is hard.
- Include your caregivers and family. Help them access their own support too.
- Don't be put off if the first thing isn't the right fit. It is okay to try a different counsellor or kind of support until you find one that helps.
How services are organised and funded varies a lot by location, so your ALS/MND team, doctor, or local MND/ALS association are the best guides to what is available and how to access it where you live.
And remember the crisis guidance on the previous question: if you are in crisis or feel unsafe, contact your local emergency services or a crisis helpline right away. The next question gives you prompts for these conversations.
Explained: what this word meansEvidence for this answer
The sources the Compass team used to write this answer. Highlighted phrases in the answer above correspond to the statements below.
Statement 1 of 2. Many ALS/MND teams and clinics either include psychological support or can refer you to it.
Supports this. NICE MND guideline — NICE · Clinical guideline
Puts referral to counselling or psychology services in the hands of the MND team, alongside offering information about emotional support, support groups and online forums.
“If needed, refer the person to counselling or psychology services for a specialist assessment and support.”
1.6.2Link checked August 2026
Qualifies this. ALS Mental Health — Your ALS Guide · Practical guide
Agrees the team is the place to start but is explicit that provision is patchy, and suggests asking them to recommend someone experienced with ALS or serious illness where the clinic has no service of its own.
“Some but not all ALS clinics offer mental health services.”
Being Open to CounselingLink checked August 2026
Statement 2 of 2. MND/ALS associations often provide emotional support themselves or can point to local counselling and services experienced with the condition, for the person and their family.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Lists the association itself among the sources of help, and describes a helpline that gives emotional support and introduces people to local branches, groups and trained visitors, for people with MND and for their carers and families.
“MND Association: for guidance, information, services and emotional support, including regional support.”
Section 5: Who can help?, page 35Link checked August 2026
Supports this. ALS Mental Health — Your ALS Guide · Practical guide
Says the local ALS organisation, alongside the clinic, may be able to recommend a mental health professional nearby with experience of disability or serious illness.
“Your ALS clinic or local ALS organization may be able to recommend a mental health professional in your area who has experience working with people living with a disability or chronic or terminal illness.”
Addressing AnxietyLink checked August 2026
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A few questions ready for your ALS/MND team, doctor, or a mental health professional can make it easier to get the support that suits you. Choose what fits. And remember, simply saying "I'm struggling" is enough to start.
Getting support
- I have been finding things hard emotionally. What support is available to me?
- What kinds of support would suit my situation (counselling, psychology, other)?
- Is there support experienced with ALS/MND or serious illness?
- Can support come to me, or be by phone or video, if getting out is difficult?
For my family and caregivers
- What emotional support is there for my caregiver and family?
- How do we look after our wellbeing through this?
Specific concerns
- I think I may be depressed / very anxious. Can you help me with this?
- I have involuntary crying or laughing. Can anything help? (See also symptom management.)
- We have noticed changes in my thinking or behaviour. What support is there?
Practical
- How do I access this, and is there a wait or a cost where I live?
- What do I do, and who do I contact, if I am in crisis or feel unsafe?
It can help to note how you have been feeling beforehand, even briefly. Bringing someone you trust can help too. There is no shame in any of this; looking after your emotional health is as valid as looking after your body. The peer support, family communication, caregiver, and palliative care cards cover related support.
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A diagnosis like ALS/MND can raise some of life's biggest questions. People often find themselves asking "why me", what their life has meant, what they still want to do, and where they stand with faith or belief. These questions are a normal, human response, not a sign that anything is wrong with how you are coping.
There is no single right way through them:
- Faith can be a comfort, or it can be shaken, and sometimes both at once. People who hold a faith may find it steadies them, or may struggle with it. People with no particular faith ask these questions too. All of this is okay.
- Meaning often comes from connection and from small things, not only from big answers: time with people who matter, doing what you still can, and being known.
- Legacy can help. Some people find comfort in recording memories, writing letters, passing on stories, or working on something that will outlast them.
Who can help:
- A chaplain or spiritual care worker supports people of any belief, or none, and is often part of hospital or palliative care teams. You do not have to be religious to talk to one.
- Your own faith community, if you have one.
- A counsellor or psychologist, and other people living with ALS/MND through peer support (see the Peer Support card).
You do not have to have these conversations before you are ready, or have them at all. But if these questions are weighing on you, you do not have to sit with them alone. Asking to talk to someone is a strength.
Explained: what this word meansEvidence for this answer
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Statement 1 of 3. Asking why me, and questions about meaning and faith, is a normal response to a diagnosis like ALS/MND rather than a sign of coping badly.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Lists feeling why me among the natural responses to an MND diagnosis, treats strong emotional reactions as expected rather than a problem, and says a faith leader or a palliative care or hospice team can help you explore these questions.
“Remember that emotional reactions are natural when facing challenges.”
Section 2: How do I manage challenging emotions?, page 11Link checked August 2026
Statement 2 of 3. Some people find comfort in creating a legacy, such as recording memories, writing letters or passing on stories.
Supports this. Leaving a Legacy for Loved Ones — Your ALS Guide · Practical guide
Describes an emotional legacy as letters, recordings, organised photos, family history or recipes, and says making one can bring peace of mind and a sense of purpose, as well as comfort for loved ones later.
“The process of creating a legacy can be fulfilling. It can provide peace of mind and a sense of purpose.”
Why leave a legacy?Link checked August 2026
Statement 3 of 3. Spiritual care is offered to people of any belief and to people with none.
Supports this. Providing spiritual care in palliative care — Marie Curie · Practical guide · March 2022
Separates spirituality from religion, says spiritual needs are not limited to religious people, and names chaplains and spiritual care coordinators among those who provide this kind of care within palliative care.
“Spiritual issues can affect everyone – people do not need to be religious to have spiritual needs.”
What is spirituality?Link checked August 2026
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Intimacy matters, and ALS/MND can change it, yet many people find it one of the hardest parts to talk about. It is completely normal for this to come up, and normal to find it hard to raise.
Changes can be physical, emotional and practical:
- Physical: weakness, fatigue, breathing changes, positioning, and equipment can all affect what feels comfortable or possible.
- Emotional: when a partner takes on caring, the balance of the relationship can shift, and that can affect how close or attractive people feel. Low mood, anxiety and worries about body image are common and understandable.
- Practical: energy, timing, and privacy can all need a bit more planning.
A few things that help:
- Remember intimacy is broader than sex. Closeness, touch, affection, humour and simply being together all matter, and many of these stay open even as other things change.
- Talk with your partner, gently and honestly. Naming that something has changed, and that you both still want closeness, often eases the pressure. It is a shared thing to work out, not one person's problem.
- It is okay to grieve the changes. Many couples do, while also finding new ways to be close.
You can also raise it with your care team. They have heard it before, it is a legitimate health topic, and they can offer practical help, for example an occupational therapist for positioning and comfort, or support for fatigue, low mood, or relationship strain. The Family Communication and Mental Health Support topics on this card and others can help too. You are allowed to ask about this part of life.
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Statement 1 of 2. Intimacy and sexuality are recognised topics to raise with an ALS/MND care team.
Supports this. NICE MND guideline — NICE · Clinical guideline
The list of things the MND team should raise at assessments and appointments includes sexuality and intimacy, and changes in relationships and family roles. It is a subject the team is expected to bring up, not one a person has to justify raising.
“During multidisciplinary team assessments and other appointments, discuss the psychological and emotional impact of MND with the person and ask whether they have any psychological or support care needs.”
1.6.1Link checked August 2026
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Has a section on being open about intimacy and sexuality, and tells people not to feel embarrassed asking their health and social care team, and to ask for a referral to a specialist if the team lacks the knowledge.
“Try not to feel embarrassed about asking your health and social care team for guidance – if they don't have the relevant knowledge, ask to be referred to a specialist.”
Section 2: How do I manage challenging emotions?, page 20Link checked August 2026
Statement 2 of 2. Weakness, fatigue, breathing changes, positioning and equipment can all affect what is comfortable or possible.
Qualifies this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Names symptoms, medical interventions and assistive equipment such as a head support among the things people worry about. It also draws a distinction the answer does not: MND itself does not affect sexual function, and it is reduced mobility that makes sexual expression harder.
“MND doesn't affect sexual function, but reduced mobility can make sexual expression more difficult.”
Section 2: How do I manage challenging emotions?, page 20Link checked August 2026
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Living with ALS/MND is not a steady emotional line. Most people describe ups and downs: some days feel manageable, others bring fear, anger, sadness, or a kind of numbness. All of that is a normal response to a hard situation. You do not have to "stay positive", and coping is not the same as being cheerful.
A few things many people find true:
- Hard feelings are valid. Fear about the future, frustration at lost abilities, grief for how things were, and anger that this is happening are all understandable. Naming a feeling, to yourself or someone else, often takes some of its weight away.
- Grief can come early. It is common to grieve losses while you are still living them, sometimes called anticipatory grief. Feeling sad about changes ahead does not mean you have given up.
- You cannot control the illness, but you can shape some of the day. Many people find it steadies them to focus on what is still within reach: a routine, small pleasures, time with people who matter, and choices they can still make.
What tends to help day to day:
- Let yourself feel it, then come up for air. Setting aside time to acknowledge difficult feelings, rather than pushing them down all the time, can make them more manageable.
- Stay connected. Many people find it helps to talk with someone they trust, or with others living with ALS/MND, rather than carrying it alone (see the Peer Support card).
- Pace yourself emotionally as well as physically. Some days you will have less in reserve, and that is okay.
Everyday coping and professional mental health support are not either/or. If low mood, anxiety, or hopelessness becomes heavy or constant, that is a reason to reach out, and the question on when to reach out covers this. Asking for help is part of coping well, not a failure of it.
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Statement 1 of 3. Putting a difficult feeling into words, alone or with someone else, often takes some of its intensity away.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Advises making space for painful feelings and sharing them, writing them down or letting yourself cry, and gives the reason directly: hiding strong emotions tends to make them worse.
“Strong emotions can get more intense if you hide them.”
Section 2: How do I manage challenging emotions?, page 17Link checked August 2026
Statement 2 of 3. Grieving losses while still living through them, sometimes called anticipatory grief, is a common experience in ALS/MND.
Supports this. Emotional and psychological support for people with or affected by MND — MND Association · Practical guide · November 2023
Lists sadness and anticipated grief for the losses ahead, including changes to life goals, among the natural responses to an MND diagnosis, and later advises easing anticipatory grief by being open with the people close to you.
“You may feel sadness due to your diagnosis and anticipated grief for the losses ahead, including changes to life goals.”
Section 1: What can I expect?, page 6Link checked August 2026
Statement 3 of 3. Low mood, anxiety or hopelessness that becomes heavy or constant is a reason to seek professional support.
Supports this. ALS Mental Health — Your ALS Guide · Practical guide
Draws the same line between ordinary low days and clinical depression, lists persistent sadness, loss of interest and hopelessness among its symptoms, and frames it as treatable rather than as something to endure.
“It is a common, treatable medical condition that can be triggered by any number of causes, including being diagnosed with a chronic disease like ALS.”
Identifying and Treating DepressionLink checked August 2026
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